The Boyfriend Material

After answering the survey I've just taken below, I was able to think of my past relationship. Gosh! It was just so confusing during those times.

I can still remember the days when I first knew my ex. It was something unforgettable. It just proves that love comes when you least expect it. Never did I even thought that I would fall in love at a young age (14) and to a guy like him. He was coupled with trouble... Someone who has a "bad boy" image, though responsible when it comes to his home chores and also has constant and good relationship with God.

Though Mom couldn't see any good with my ex. There was something with his aura that many of my relatives doesn't like. My friends like him, but my relatives? family friends? even teachers during my high school days doesn't like him.

We held on to our relationship even though everyone seems to be against it. I learned how to "answer" my Mom, and we've hurt each other with our fights. My life seemed to be such a mess during those times.

My ex and I lasted for 2 years and 3 months. Mom was somehow successful why we did not last. Though I guess the main reason why we broke up is because I found someone better, Macey, my current boyfriend. My mom was able to accept Macey compared to my ex. Anyway, that's another story.

After all those reminiscing, I just thought of, most of the people I know had troubles with their first girlfriend/boyfriend. I guess it has something to do with:

• Age. Being inlove in a young age.
• People. Family/relatives always have something to say (negative). Which they think the first bf/gf isn't right for you.
• It is often said that it is just "puppy love" and it shouldn't be taken seriously.

Well I still believe that whatever my ex and I had before, it was real. Though we were not mature enough...

Currently, my cousin is undergoing a big problem with his first girlfriend. I guess his undergoing the stage of the first bf/gf troubles :D Though I feel bad for him. I just hope that he'll be doing okay and that he'll realize that he's still young to be tied down. Specially to a girl who caused him enough pain and bought big problems to his parents.